We provide family reunion therapy to help reintegrate ADULTS with family members, who have been found via 23&me and Ancestry.com by creating a "step by step" reunion plan. We provide a framework for setting boundaries in the reunion. So, both parties decide together how the relationship will be and have set goals and expectations entering the relationship with empathy, understanding and compassion. They learn how to have an open mind, and respect they will have different narratives entering the reunion. You can’t contract behavior but you can create respectful experiences.